Many of my clients are people with families, some have family issues where there may be conflict etc.
The key thing to always focus on first is the invidual seeking help. You may remember the quote by Ghandi – “be the change you wish to see in this world”. Helping someone develop their confidence, self esteem, health, true wealth etc will not only benefit them but those surrounding them too. All my clients have developed core beliefs from their parents and if their parents have issues, limiting beliefs etc then its is very likely that this is passed on generation to generation.
It is vital to humanities evolution that we break the cycle of core beliefs which are damaging society.
This has to start with this individual. If they make their garden look amazing everyone will be more likely to be inspired and to listen to that person.
Affirmations are very powerful when spoken out loud..- the word of God is very powerful and you are part of God speaking its power. So its handy to have some focus on what to focus your attention on and speak about.
Affirmation are flexible with some creativity to focus on people around you too. They are like a form of prayer which again is the word of God/universe.
Here are some examples;
I love seeing my children happy and creative
I love seeing sarah healing very quickly or being healed now
I love my husband being attentive and loving
I love being attentive and loving
I feel joy at seeing my family working together as a wonderful team
I love seeing Ben more confident and strong
You get the idea.
Focus besides yourself can include people around you too. It a good idea to be more confident, motivated, peace loving yourself first though as a source of inspiration for others.
